Writer’s Credo


Love what you write.

When you are creating a story, you don’t owe anything to anyone.

Go on adventures.

Without “The End” your beginning is lost.

Be open and allow your characters to surprise you.

Remember to PLAY.

Always LISTEN, for the story is speaking to you.

Strike these words from your mind: This is the way it’s always been done.

Love your characters.

Write like YOU.

Write in solitude, share in multitudes.

Celebrate with those who encourage and inspire you.

Feedback: Hear what all say; follow what your heart feels.

And above all, believe in yourself.


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In Pursuit of the Comma

Yes, we all know there are rules for using commas, but why do we even need commas? The purpose of a comma is to make our sentences more readable. Commas normally occur where a reader would take a pause.

Pauses are important in writing, in music, and in our lives.


In music, pauses can create dramatic moments in a composition. They are called “rest.” And that’s exactly what happens – the music and the musicians take a break from the forward movement of the notes. A rest can create tension. Claude Debussy said: “Music is the space between the notes.” While this idea speaks of more than just the musical rest, it does give importance to other things than the musical notes that make up songs and compositions.

The comma can provide not only easier reading of out words strung into sentences and clarity of meaning, but they can also provide and create dramatic moments, and thereby, create tension.

For example, to illustrate providing clarity, read the following out loud:

Let’s eat Mother before going to the mall.

Maybe a line from a horror movie? Let’s include two commas for clarity:

Let’s eat, Mother, before going to the mall

See how a comma can affect the meaning of a sentence?

If you’re not sure of comma rules, you can look these up online. Many websites have great examples of comma usage.

So what about the commas of your life? Downtime, the times we take breaks from our activities, can be as important as those activities. Sleep is an extended comma. Taking breaks during the day helps to break up our time and activities. These comma times can give us a mind rest before we begin the next activity.

In our lives we also experience comma moments through deep thinking, prayer, and meditation. Don’t diminish the time needed to “quiet your mind.”

Do you take a comma (rest or break) before you begin writing? Try this and see if it doesn’t help you focus more on your writing, leaving behind what you were doing previously.


1)      Brush up on your comma usage.

2)      Listen to some of your favorite songs / compositions. Listen between the notes…

3)      How do you use commas in your life? (And if you don’t, how might you make use of these breaks?)



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A Year of Intentions


My online writing group, Artistic License, has weekly chats and we had our first one of 2013 last evening. The first chat of a new year is usually about our goals for the coming year. This year, because of one of our members (bless you, Connie!), our whole chat took on a new and deeper meaning.


Connie had posted her INTENTIONS for 2013. This concept hit me like an ocean liner. WOW! Intentions! It said so much more to me than just using the term “goals.”

At Dictionary.com, one definition of intention is as follows: purpose or attitude toward the effect of one’s actions or conduct.

Intention is about action, about attitude, about one’s conduct. I had the feeling this means I’m GOING PLACES in 2013. Not just working toward something, but I have arrived. Where I am is just as important as where I’m headed.

For many months, I have been drawing one (and often two) Tarot cards per day as a point of focus for that day. It’s a way to make myself a more focused-on-NOW person, a better person. (I based the interruption of the card on work from another Artistic License member, Marilyn, who is putting together her book of Tarot interruptions based on a daily one card draw. Her work is positive and very uplifting.)

The card I drew yesterday had these meanings:

I live in the moment.

I am successful.

These two ideals are part of my 2013 focus. While I do work toward being and maintaining success, I AM successful. Right now. That is part of living in the moment. (And I love how these two ideals work together!)

Some of my intentions might sound like goals for 2013, but the big different is my attitude, actions, and effort that I focus on today. That carries over through all my tomorrows.

Intentions. 2013. Focus. Living in the moment. Claiming my success now. If I claim my today, the future follows.

Some of my major intentions for 2013:

Have the second edition of my nonfiction published by the end of March.

Have my novel ready for publication by the end of August.

Plan and begin the drafting of a second book by the end of December.

This is all part of living the dream…

CHALLENGE: What are your intentions for 2013?


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Write What You Know?



“Bad books on writing   and thoughtless English professors solemnly tell beginners to

‘Write What You Know’,

which explains why so many   mediocre novels are about

English professors   contemplating adultery.”

~~Joe Haldeman

You hear this from many corners: Write what you know.

But – what is it that you KNOW?

If you take this literary, does that mean you can’t write about grief if you’ve never lost someone close to you? Does it mean you can’t write about betrayal if you’ve never been deceived?

I know a few writers who react to this statement in that way. So I ask (again): What is it that you KNOW?

“Write what you know. That should leave you with a lot of   free time.”

~~ Howard Nemerov

Writers are naturally curious. Or that’s my impression from the hundreds I’ve met. Writers seem to love learning. Many have a wide range of life experiences. There’s nothing wrong with writing from your experiences. That’s a great start.

Many writers take their own experiences and expand those into new directions. Much advice is given to newbie writers about starting with your own experiences when creating your first stories. This is valuable advice.

One of the gifts that’s helpful to a writer is being able to put yourself into other situations and be able to make those emotional connections that one would feel in a given situation. Actors do this—well, the great one do. Writers can and do take advantage of this also.

“Most beginning writers – and I was the same – are like   chefs trying to cook great dishes that they’ve never tasted themselves. How   can you make a great – or even an adequate – bouillabaisse if you’ve never   had any? If you don’t really understand why people read mysteries – or   romances or literary novels or thrillers or whatever – then there’s no way in   the world you’re going to write one that anyone wants to publish. This is the   meaning of the well-known expression “Write what you know.”

~~ Daniel Quinn

The statement, write what you know, has been used so much that it has become cliché. And yes, it is open to many interpretations. What I’m suggesting is that writers try to see beyond the simplest meaning, whatever form that might take.

“You write what you know because—like   there’s another choice? The trick is to try and know as much as possible.”

~~ Lois McMaster Bujold

Some have explained the statement to mean what interests you or what you are passionate about. Whether you see this side of the meaning or not, writing what you’re passionate about helps to put fire into your words, and that tumbles down to impact your readers.

Don’t listen to anyone else, but look inside yourself to discover what ignites your own fires.

I’m not saying you should ignore the market. Every writer should understand what’s doing well in the genres he or she writes. But that doesn’t mean you have to write to those markets. (Repeat this last sentence at least three times.)

Sometimes publishers and agents are looking for what’s selling, but they are always looking for good stories, no matter if that’s a hot topic or not. And you never know—your story might be the one that will start the new hot trend.

“Creative   writing teachers should be purged until every last instructor who has uttered   the words “Write what you know” is confined to a labor camp.   Please, talented scribblers, write what you don’t. The blind guy with the   funny little harp who composed The Iliad, how much combat do you think he   saw?”

~~ P. J. O’Rourke

Maybe you have something you NEED to say or write about. Something you feel strong enough about that you want others to experience this in some way. Writing from a need is similar to writing from your interests or passion.

The only caution I would give to those who write from a need is to make sure you don’t come across as preachy or like you’re giving a lecture. One of the primary functions of fiction is to entertain, and that what most readers are expecting.

“Don’t   write what you know—what you know may bore you, and thus bore your readers.   Write about what interests you—and interests you deeply—and your readers will

catch fire at your words.”

~~ Valerie Sherwood

Some have attributed the quote “write what you know” to Mark Twain or to William Faulkner. Twain also said “Faith is believing what you know ain’t so.”

What you write about concerns people. What you write about are human emotions and the human condition. Even if you’re writing science fiction or fantasy, this is still true. The connection you are building between story and reader needs to be an emotional one. In my opinion, my dear writer friends, this is writing what you know.

CHALLENGE: What’s your understanding of the quote “write what you know”?


Making Choices

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“Choices are the hinges of destiny.”

~~ Attributed to both Edwin Markham   and Pythagoras

Writing fiction, like life, is about making decisions. But before putting pen to paper or fingers to the keyboard, there’s a universe of possibilities. After defining what possibilities you’re working with in 2012, you have some choices to make.

This is a “tumbling down” effect. First you have your dream. You explore your possibilities. You make decisions based on your possibilities.

Many writers might next ask: How do I know which choices are the “right” ones for me? Instead of thinking in “right” and “wrong,” take a peek at what your intuition and muse are saying to you. Ask yourself: What possibilities am I most drawn to? You don’t have to be concerned about asking or answering WHY. Listen deep inside yourself and stay with the possibilities that you’re passionate about, ones that you can’t leave behind.

“The doors we open and close each day   decide the lives we live.”

~~ Flora Whittemore

Try using some of the tools you use to create stories in making choices about your possibilities. Explore each possibility as you would a story idea. What makes this an exciting or challenging possibility for you to work on during 2012?

What would your possibility look like if you created a storyboard or visual collage?

Think about what each possibility GIVES you. What does each TAKE from you?

Journal about each possibility and envision yourself in December 2012. Where has that possibility taken you and what have you done with it?

Brainstorm either alone or with friends, family, or your writing group. As the ideas and suggestions fly, what possibility or possibilities connect with you?

“Follow   your instincts. That’s where true wisdom manifests itself.”

~~   Oprah Winfrey

You learn from each choice you make, no matter if, looking back, it might have not been the smartest one you could have made.

Trust your intuition.

Follow and pick the possibilities that you find challenging. Ones that will fire your spirit and light your mind.

The possibilities that appeal to you, that you are drawn to, that your muse is pushing you toward are the “right” one at this time and place.

You only have to make a choice.

“In any moment of decision the   best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong   thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

~~ Theodore Roosevelt

CHALLENGE: Prioritize your list of possibilities. What’s the number one and two items that you want to achieve or begin to achieve in 2012? How did you come to these choices?





“A new baby is like the beginning of all things –



a dream of possibilities.”

~~ Eda J. Le Shan

Many of you might be thinking in terms of New Year’s Resolutions or setting goals for the coming year.

What I’m proposing is that you take a step back and first consider possibilities.

Think of possibility as life-giving oxygen for your dreams, as the light that helps you through the difficult times.

“Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our   imaginations,

our possibilities become limitless.”

~~Jamie Paolineti

Possibility is like a blueprint for your vision and dreams. What amazing things are just around the corner in your mind?

Spend some time brainstorming, pondering, and journaling about YOUR possibilities… Think BIG. I dare you!

No matter how crazy the possibility write it down, tell a trusted friend, or say it out loud to your furry friend. Do all three, if you wish. Make it REAL in some physical form.

“The possibilities are numerous once we decide to act   and not react.”

~~ George Bernard Shaw

This is a journey in discovery. Do it…don’t wait. Today is a time to take action.

Keep a list of your possibilities with you this week, this month. Put the items in different order. Play with the possibilities on your list.

“Nothing limits achievement like small thinking;

nothing expands possibilities like

unleashed imagination.”

~~ William Arthur Ward

Once you’ve had a chance to breath in your possibilities, think about the small steps (baby steps) that take your possibilities from dream to reality.

CHALLENGE: What’s on your list?

Happy 2012! May each of you have a year of peace, joy, and fulfilled possibility.




Seven things I’m thankful for:

1. My family and furry pet children

2. My Artistic License online writing group

3. My friends

4. My health

5. My work (what with so many laid off….)

6. My home

7. An incredible universe and world in which to live


CHALLENGE: What’s on your list?

Wishing all of you a wonderful Thanksgiving Day!



A Letter from your Muse

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NOTE: This was originally published as a guest blog at http://speculativesalon.blogspot.com
in May 2011. Enjoy!


Dear Writer,

Yes, it’s me—the Muse. You’ve been complaining for a while that I’ve been absent. How many times have you said something like “I can’t get in the flow” or “My muse has deserted me”?

Maybe you guessed that I went on an extended vacation. Or that I’ve simply disappeared.

Well, I’m here to tell you that I’ve been here all this time. I know you find that difficult to believe, but it’s true. The Muses don’t lie. Never.

We take our work seriously.

You think the work of the Muses is easy? Fun? Magical?

Wrong. Wrong. And wrong.

Flow takes work. Writing takes work. And magic? That’s how you feel when you’re in that powerful creative flow. And yes, getting to that magical element takes work. It’s not something you can order, like pizza.

Think about it. Musicians practice. Athletes practice. Artists practice. A lot. It’s a commitment. So what is it with writers who expect to sit themselves down and just do it after not practicing their craft in a while?

As a Muse I like order and focus. I am available to those who commit themselves to their craft. Your actions and commitment create ENERGY and that energy FEEDS me.

How to begin? Take action. Write. A lot. Act as if, when you sit down to write, that you do this ALL THE TIME. That you have already begun. Write as if you ARE in the flow. As if I’m with you in this magical movement of ideas and thoughts and words that flow out of you as STORY.

The top two things that block me from BEING with you when you write are: your inner critic and YOU.

The inner critic has a place. When you are analyzing what idea to develop into a story, he is helpful. When you are planning the storyline, he is helpful.
When you are revising, he is helpful. When you are writing, send him off to do some errand or send him to Arizona. Just sent him away for this part of your writing process.

That’s right. You are your own worse enemy. You create resistance. You come up with all kinds of excuses not to write. You put off your writing as long as you can. Why? Because writing is like stepping out of your comfort zone. Writing is action. You are DOING something. (And it FEELS good!) So ask yourself: What’s stopping you? (HINT: Many times the response has to do with some FEAR.)

Somerset Maugham, when asked if he wrote on a schedule or when inspiration stuck, responded: “I write only when inspiration strikes me. Fortunately it strikes me every morning at nine o’clock sharp.”

Do you see what he’s saying? He’s committed. He takes ACTION. He’s practicing his craft. He’s connected.

What are you waiting for? (And when the excuses tumble out of you, ask yourself: WHY?)

The more you write, the more you HEAR me, UNDERSTAND me, and FEEL me. The more you write, the more you are CONNECTED to me, your Muse.

Without action, there is no connection, no flow. This is when you can’t find or feel me. This is when you feel deserted. So sit, write. I’m here…waiting.

Writing in the flow is not magical; it CREATES the magic. And this is flow. I’m here, ready, waiting. What about you?

The Muse

Tomorrow. . . Putting Off Success


Yesterday is but today’s memory,

and tomorrow is today’s dream.

–Khalil Gibran

You know what is said about “tomorrow” – “Tomorrow never comes.” Yes we do only have TODAY. (We can plan for our tomorrows, but I’m talking about what we make of our today.)

The “putting off” syndrome not only doesn’t get our writing (or whatever we’re putting off) done, it can leave us feeling: guilty, sad, depressed, overloaded, and exhausted.

Do you see what’s happening? First we put off something important to us and then we feel back about our actions (or lack of). So now we have the knowledge of what we haven’t done AND our feelings going against us. And this makes it easier the following day and the day after that to repeat this process.

We all need a wake up call! ASK YOURSELF: What am I’m waiting for?

And you probably came up with many answers:

When the kids are grown and out the door…

When I retire….

When I have more time…


STOP! Write down all those “reasons.” Now DESTROY that paper. Yes! Tear it up. Burn it. Flush it. Or whatever. Put those things behind you.

I’m here to tell you something important: You only have today. Today only happens once. DO your writing TODAY.

And when you wake up into a new TODAY. Repeat the above.

Success is however you define it: Big goals, everyday goals. It’s your definition of “success” that counts.

Recipe for Success:

Start with your DREAM. (This is one measure of your success.)

Break it down into SMART goals.

Break those down into BABY STEPS. (As small as you need them to be.)

The goals and baby steps are another measure of your success.

Devise a plan.

Follow the plan.

And when you repeat this for every TODAY you have, you’ve achieved your dream. You have SUCCEEDED!

BUILD success into your life and your TODAY will have meaning beyond what you might expect.

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.

The important thing is not to stop questioning.

–Albert Einstein

Challenge for today: How can you be successful every DAY? What about TODAY?

Best Wishes,


I Know You, Resistance! – Steps to Overcoming What’s Stopping You


“The more important a call or action is

 to our soul’s evolution,

the more Resistance we will feel toward pursuing it.”

–Steven Pressfield (from his book, DO THE WORK)

We all do it, no matter if we’re on our journey to realizing our writing dream or we’ve achieved some measure of success on that journey. We all face RESISTANCE. It’s another form of fear (remember those Doubt Demons?), and it can lead us astray.

Resistance is a tricky demon. It comes in many forms and flavors. Each of us has to be open to knowing when resistance is keeping us from our dream.

I’m guessing that most who read my blog are writers and you’ve made writing your dream. Writing is your passion. (If it’s not, you need to know what your dream is in order to overcome any resistance. Pressfield suggests that the one that you should choose to pursue is the one that “scares you the most.”)

Resistance is also explored in THE ARTIST’S WAY by Julia Cameron (in Week 8: Recovering a Sense of Strength).  She talks about the ways we avoid our creative endeavors, such as:

  • I’m too old to do this.
  • What would I accomplish?
  • I’m too busy.
  • There are other things I should be doing first that are more important.
  • I have to do many other things to get ready to follow this dream.

Once you recognize the “resistance talk” that is stopping you, you can take corrective action to overcome this.

Think baby steps. Think daily, small actions and goals that you can do to move you beyond the resistance talk.

Think small in order to achieve big. Show up EVERY DAY to get your writing done.

Rely on the help and support of your writing group and writing buddy. Get support for your dream wherever you can find it. (If you have negativity in one place, leave it behind and drift to the positive side and positive people.)

Maybe you need a mentor and a formal class to keep you motivated and moving forward.

Once you’ve formally stated and defined your dream, think about it from inside that dream. Think of the question within your writing dream: Of all the things that you might do with your writing, what’s the one that scares you the most? (This gives you another clue about the focus of your writing journey.)

Go forth! Show the “resistance talk” a thing or two!

DO THE WORK by Steven Pressfield, author of THE WAR OF ART, is available for the Kindle at Amazon. Currently this book is FREE! Don’t delay in getting and reading your copy. If you don’t have a Kindle, download the free software to read the book on your computer or other device.

Challenge for today: What is your dream? What is your “inside the dream” dream?

Best Wishes,


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